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2018 new year's journey east

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There are advantages and disadvantages to marrying a foreigner. Chinese New Year brings to mind an advantage and disadvantage. Advantage: there is never any argument over whose family we will spend the most important holidays with: my family for Christmas and Thanksgiving, her family for Chinese New Year. Disadvantage: spending one of these holidays with the family is going to involve a very long trip. In fact, to spend Chinese New Year with Christine's family involves not just a trip to Singapore, but another trip to Malaysia as well. Never mind the difficulty and expense of travelling, however, because our 2018 trip to the former Straits Settlements was very enjoyable. In the kampung It is traditional that a Chinese family would spend Chinese New Year at the husband's parents' home. Christine's husband doesn't have any immediate Chinese family, and, besides, we already spent November and December with his family. Christine grew up spending the holiday wit